Yes you read that correctly, I am jealous over summer school. My husband's that is. I love going to school, I always have, I always will. Over the years I have earned one Master's degree, the credit equivalent of a second one (CT recognizes 30 credits in an area related to your content area as a masters degree) with almost an additional 15 credits beyond that. I hope to by the end of next school year have 30 additional credits beyond my second masters (which had a done a program I would get to put PhD after my name).
Most of these classes have been online and not exactly what I would call academically challenging. They were a lot of work and a lot of time (most of my classes required 40 page papers with them) yet it wasn't a "real" program. Well Papa Hunt got offered a deal he couldn't refuse. A master's program run out of his high school by an amazingly good University in CT and we think most of it will be forgiven under a loan forgiveness program. This degree would allow him to advance both in his career as well as on the pay scale. I am so happy for him, so proud of the work he is doing. But insanely jealous. I want to be the one to go back to school!! I want to take these great classes!! Yet, I took the easy way out of online courses to move up on the salary scale as fast as a could to help our family. I don't ever regret that choice because it was the right choice at the right time for me and my family-Yet those who know me know that one of my great goals in life is to earn a PhD and teach at the collegiate level perhaps once I retire from HS teaching. I know that my someday will come to go back to school (maybe even once I am retired) but it is still hard not to be jealous. I also know that jealousy isn't good for a marriage so once I whine about it here, in my safe place I will let this go. That is what has to happen because I can only be a little bitch about this for so long. My hubs got lucky! Also, in reality my kids need there Momma-They need me to be home doing the mom gig in the summers, not slowly plugging away at a third masters or PhD. They need me to do all the things that I can't do when I am working. So I promise folks, I will stop giving the hubs the stink eye as he leaves for class this upcoming week and know that someday (even if I am 57-which is when I can retire) I will go back to school the way I want to! Hell lets be honest when I have 57 and retired I most likely won't give a shit about that PhD and just want to sit my ass on vacation and enjoy retirement. We shall see.
Most of these classes have been online and not exactly what I would call academically challenging. They were a lot of work and a lot of time (most of my classes required 40 page papers with them) yet it wasn't a "real" program. Well Papa Hunt got offered a deal he couldn't refuse. A master's program run out of his high school by an amazingly good University in CT and we think most of it will be forgiven under a loan forgiveness program. This degree would allow him to advance both in his career as well as on the pay scale. I am so happy for him, so proud of the work he is doing. But insanely jealous. I want to be the one to go back to school!! I want to take these great classes!! Yet, I took the easy way out of online courses to move up on the salary scale as fast as a could to help our family. I don't ever regret that choice because it was the right choice at the right time for me and my family-Yet those who know me know that one of my great goals in life is to earn a PhD and teach at the collegiate level perhaps once I retire from HS teaching. I know that my someday will come to go back to school (maybe even once I am retired) but it is still hard not to be jealous. I also know that jealousy isn't good for a marriage so once I whine about it here, in my safe place I will let this go. That is what has to happen because I can only be a little bitch about this for so long. My hubs got lucky! Also, in reality my kids need there Momma-They need me to be home doing the mom gig in the summers, not slowly plugging away at a third masters or PhD. They need me to do all the things that I can't do when I am working. So I promise folks, I will stop giving the hubs the stink eye as he leaves for class this upcoming week and know that someday (even if I am 57-which is when I can retire) I will go back to school the way I want to! Hell lets be honest when I have 57 and retired I most likely won't give a shit about that PhD and just want to sit my ass on vacation and enjoy retirement. We shall see.
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Me giving the stink eye and pouting about not going to school! |
Sorry for you but give our congrats to the hubby!